"Hello everyone. I want to start by
thanking those who came to hear me speak today. You’re all lovely and I’m so
glad you’re here. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Kayla
McEldowney. In just a couple short weeks though, I’ll be giving up my first
name to serve a mission. For those of you who know me pretty well, that’s
slightly ironic because I sort of wish I was giving up my last name to get
married, but ya can’t win ‘em all!
In all seriousness though, I really
am beyond stoked to serve a mission. I have been called to serve in the Brazil,
Santos Mission and will be preaching in the Portuguese language. For the next
18 months I will be giving up Facebook, my phone, Pinterest, my own room, education
and music that’s not produced by the church—so yes, that means no more country
music for Kayla. More people than I can count ask why I’m doing this. Well, it’s
really pretty simple. I get to spend those 18 months serving the Lord and that
makes me happier than all of those things combined! Words truly can’t describe
how incredibly happy being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints makes me. Knowing that I will get to share that joy with people every
day for a year and a half leaves me speechless and I am glad that I get to
start sharing that joy with all of you today!
I have been asked to speak on Elder
Jeffrey R. Holland’s General Conference talk entitled, “’Lord, I Believe’” from
the April 2013 General Conference. I would invite all of you to read, or
re-read, this talk, because I don’t know that I can say it better than he has,
but I pray that as I speak, you will be taught by the Spirit.
Elder Holland, in his address,
talks a lot about faith, believing, and knowledge. Much like the Book of Mormon
and the Bible, those three words may seem,
on the surface, to have little to no relation, but they all go together and
work hand-in-hand.
Before getting into the deeper
stuff, let’s look at what these words really mean, especially the words believe
and faith.
The word ‘believe’ is a verb. It
means to have a firm conviction as to the goodness, efficacy, or ability of
something. So, when you believe in something
or someone, you have been show proof previously that leads you to believe in
them.
Faith is just a little different. Faith
is a firm belief in something for which there is no proof. That’s the key! When
you have faith in something, there is no proof that leads to that firm
conviction of goodness or truth, or whatever it may be. Alma 32:21 says,
concerning faith, that it is “not to have a perfect knowledge of things;” The
last part of the scripture is what I really want to emphasize though—“therefore
if ye have faith ye hope for things which
are not seen, which are true.” Things that are not seen. That is the key
difference between believing something and having faith in something.
When you believe in something, you
are being given the proof of their
abilities. Faith is a choice you and I both make. Bishop Richard C. Edgely, emeritus
member of the Presiding Bishopric, said that “faith is not a free gift without
thought, desire, or effort.” It is not handed to us on a silver platter, but
something we must choose to have and exercise.
Knowledge is kind of like the final
stage of a three step system. Knowledge is the fact or condition of knowing
something with familiarity gained through experience or association. So when
you know something, it’s concrete.
You’ve experienced it and have no doubt of its truthfulness.
Believing, having faith, and
gaining knowledge really can be looked at like a three step system. Let’s take
me for example. Deciding to go on a mission was not easy by any stretch of the
imagination. My first semester of school I ended up having a group of around 50
friends with 90% of them who either had their mission calls or were getting
ready to submit their mission papers. Now, I don’t say that to brag, but imagine
the pressure when you’re originally part of the 10% who weren’t going. I
remember praying every day that Heavenly Father would help to know if I was
supposed to go. I had a desire to serve, but I had never received confirmation
that a mission was something I was supposed to pursue, so I didn’t. I sat through
two semesters, both filled with friends opening mission calls what seemed like
every week! I believed that this was the path that my friends were supposed to
follow and that it would be an amazing experience. People don’t say it’s the
best two years for nothing, right? Well, I continued to pray for an answer. I
kept thinking “why do I have this strong desire if I’m not supposed to go? Why
are so many of the people in my life on this path when I have no tie to it? I’m
not going on a mission, so why are these the people I’ve spent every day with
for months?” I loved my friends, but not going on a mission made me feel like
an outcast—a loved one but an outcast nonetheless. As my second semester ended
and I said goodbye to another wave of friends, knowing it would be much longer
than a summer until I would see them again, my prayers started to change. It
went from “am I supposed to serve?” to “I’m not going to pursue a mission. If
that’s the wrong decision, please help me to realize that.” It was that weekend
that it hit me like a ton of bricks. I remember walking through Temple Square
being so happy that I was in Salt Lake showing my mom one of my favorite places
on earth. I was showing her all the great things in the visitor centers and
spouting off all sorts of Church history, and then I heard a voice so clearly
tell me that I needed to start my mission papers as soon as I got home. That’s when
the difficult part came in. I had finally come to terms with the fact that I
wasn’t supposed to serve, and now I was? What the what? OK, What about the fall
though? I had already made plans! What about my family? I already told them I
wasn’t serving! It was the little things, and those really do add up. I had
faith and knowledge though. I had faith that serving a mission would bless me
in ways I could not comprehend. I had faith that serving a mission would bless
my family. And I knew that Heavenly Father
had answered my prayers before and that this was an answer to the prayers I had
offered over the last seven months. From that first semester to now, my life
was that three step system, and it had to happen in that order. I had to believe
that missions were great, because if I hadn’t, I wouldn’t have developed the
faith that it would bless me when I served. Without believing in the goodness
and having the faith in its power, I would have never gained the knowledge that
I have now of the gospel and of my mission being an answer to prayers.
Don’t just take my word for it
though! There are scriptural accounts and other modern-day experiences of the
same thing. In Alma 32, Alma the Younger testifies that if you have “even a
desire to believe,” if you act upon that belief, your faith will grow. We learn
in Alma 5 that as our faith grows, the Holy Ghost will testify to us and we
will gain a knowledge of those things
we have faith in. Believing is what starts it all! Without first believing in
something, we cannot develop faith. A good friend of mine, who is serving a
mission right now, said this of belief, faith, and knowledge. “I would almost
say that belief is preliminary to faith, and knowledge is what comes of a test,
or act of faith. For example…, I know
that if it weren’t for a belief in the gospel before my mission, I would not
have developed the faith or knowledge of the truthfulness of this gospel.” For
this lovely friend of mine, he has seen the Holy Ghost in action. He has seen
his simple belief in the gospel transform into a sure knowledge this the gospel
is true.
I don’t think I can stress enough
the importance of taking that leap and letting yourself believe and have faith.
Acting on that desire to believe will bless you in ways you can’t comprehend. Believing
is the first step to conviction, the first step to having faith. Sometimes it’s
scary or intimidating because it’s easy to feel inadequate when you see these people
who seem like doctrinal scholars, but to anyone who feels like that, Elder
Holland says this: “The size of your faith or the degree of your knowledge is
not the issue—it is the integrity you demonstrate toward the faith you do have
and the truth you already know.” He continues on later saying, “I am not asking
you to pretend to faith you do not have. I am
asking you to be true to the faith you do
have.”
All of this is so important. As a
very close friend told me, “these
things … help you know yourself better and help you become a stronger person as
you act upon what you believe and have faith in and know.”
I have faith in Jesus Christ. I believe
in Him. I know He is my Savior and Redeemer. I trust Him, I follow Him, and I
know He loves me. I know that because of His Atonement, my sins will be
forgiven. I know that Heavenly Father loves us and answers each and every one
of our prayers. I know that The Book of Mormon and the Bible are the word of God
and go hand-in-hand. I know that the gospel was restored through Joseph Smith
and that he was a true prophet. I know that Thomas S. Monson is the true
prophet, seer, and revelator on the earth today.
